Have you ever experienced a moment of sexual ecstasy?
How did it make you feel? Exhilarated? Luminous? Deeply connected?
Intense sexual experiences are one of our greatest sources of pleasure.

At the same time, sex is often regarded with an equal measure of fear and fascination. We may crave sexual intimacy to the core of our being, yet also take great pains to avoid it. We may wish to be touched with all of our heart, yet fear our own vulnerability. We may long to rekindle lost passion, but have forgotten how to light the fire.

Shortly after becoming an escort, I discovered and became interested in tantric sex.  I think getting to know it can enrich your sex life and important, incorporate a spiritual dimension to your lovemaking. For example, I have learned to use my breathing to connect to my intuition and the hearts of others. This was an invaluable tool for me as a lover. While hugging you, I will need just a couple of seconds to ascertain your energy. Are you kind or afraid? Close or distant? Available for intimacy or guarded and controlling? It may seem incredible to think you can tell all of that from a simple hug. But, in fact, you probably already employ elements of this in your life. Next time you hug someone, just take a minute to breath into the hug and feel the flow of energy. That energy has always been there, and you are in no doubt already accessing the information on some level.

The practice of Tantra shows us how to reclaim the sexual intimacy that is our birthright. And through this most ancient of arts, we may discover new joys of the erotic and expand mere moments of sexual ecstasy into a lifetime of sexual bliss. At a time when the stresses, fears and distractions of daily life threaten so many relationships, the age-old practice of Tantra shows us how to open our hearts, our emotions and our sexuality.

In the Tantric model, the sexual experience is seen as a dance with no beginning or end. There is no goal, only the present moment of exquisite union. For this reason, lovemaking is meditative, expressive and intimate. Tantra teaches lovers how to extend the peak of their sexual ecstasy so that women and men can experience several orgasms in a single sexual encounter.

During our date, I like to keep things slow. Long foreplay is an art and a basic for tantric lovemaking. For example, taking a bath together could be a part of our meeting. Water relaxes the body and is a symbol of sexuality. Massaging each other is also an excellent way to fuse your energies. I like to maintain a deep level of intimacy, continue to gaze into each other eyes, concentrate on enjoying the moment and exploring all our senses.